Tuesday, April 10, 2012
My dear bully
You take what you want to make others sad. You wanted them to break up and they did. Are you proud of yourself? Yes, it does take two to tango. That mens nothing other than the right two found each other now. This, does not hurt. There are plenty of fish in sea, and she will find another boy. Do you feel you rule the world now? Just wait till he cheats on you too!
dear bully
so this is working for you well, for how long? Eventually somebody will find the courage to speak up.
Saturday, April 7, 2012
Friday, April 6, 2012
dear BULLY
when I get home, I just want to scream into my pillow. Everybody thinks I need to get over it, everybody has an 'enemy' in school.... kids don't all get along... blah blah blah. I buy better clothes, backpacks, get my hair done and try harder than 50% of the kids in school. Everywhere I see you, I feel like I am below dirt and make so much effort... even tried to impress you. I want to know why? Why are you doing this to ME? I never bothered you
My dear Bully
You could have real friends! Not the sour bunch you hang with. Do your parents know you act out like this? Do you really feel better pushing me and others around ? Seriously. Forget you!
Dear bully
You must have a really bad life to act out like that! Do your parents know you are such a - pain?
Thursday, April 5, 2012
My dear bully
when I see you i want to run, far away! Where I dont ever have to see you again. You are so mean and ugly
Every day
My DEAER bully,
you do not run the school. However you wear your hair is not exclusive to you. And just because this bully thing obviously worked for you for a long time does not mean you should not stop. There are days, I dont want to even walk past you. I am not afraid... I just dont wan to hear your smerky remarks. And that yelling at people in class thing as soon as the teacher walks out - so very tired!! It makes you look like a fool. Sadly, it seems you could be a cool person otherwise. I like the music you listen to. Maybe you feel left out because we all have fun and you only have bullying. Drop the act and join- duuhhh.
you do not run the school. However you wear your hair is not exclusive to you. And just because this bully thing obviously worked for you for a long time does not mean you should not stop. There are days, I dont want to even walk past you. I am not afraid... I just dont wan to hear your smerky remarks. And that yelling at people in class thing as soon as the teacher walks out - so very tired!! It makes you look like a fool. Sadly, it seems you could be a cool person otherwise. I like the music you listen to. Maybe you feel left out because we all have fun and you only have bullying. Drop the act and join- duuhhh.
Dear Friends...
As we are gaining Celebrity support and in our pre-launch phase, let us clarify what we do here and what or what not you can post.
This is a place for you to vent, speak your mind. After a day or encounter with your bully you may need to say a few words. This is where you can. YOU have a voice here. You can come here as well to read about other kids and their experiences as well. YOU are NOT alone!
We will take the comments and create material for schools and youth groups who would like to open discussion regarding this matter. Because bullies usually do the most talking, together we can take a stand and show them how the kids feel who are bullied. It shows schools how you really feel, what you are thinking, how hurtful the comments or actions really are. It may just be an incidence at your school but when people can see how often it really happens and this matter needs to be taken seriously it creates the basis for serious conversations. This is something everybody can relate to.
What you can post and what you may not. We do NOT tolerate: you do not need to name your bully or give your name, no cursing, no negative comments from bullies, no suggestive comments, no sexual comments, no death threats and threats in any harmful way. You can submit pictures instead of comments or any other art as long as it goes along with our rules. We will post it the same way. Poems are fine as well. If you would like to write a short story, it will be ok and get posted as long as our rules apply. Or just leave comment. Example:
My DEAR bully,
I felt like crying when you said those things at school today. I hate you. Who do you think you are? Do you feel bigger and better now, just because your friends laughed?
or
My DEAR bully,
I cried for hours after school today.... thanks a lot
or
My DEAR bully,
what is wrong with you. You think you are so tough! I saw you at the store the other day and the way your mom yelled at you. Maybe that is where you learned your big words!! hahaha So uncool! I would say pic on somebody else but that would be rude to another person, and the cycle continues. Look at yourself, that is the person you want to be?
or
My DEAR bully,
you need anger-management!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(
So basically, anything goes.
How to post: You can leave a message in the comment box or simply e-mail us at sek4u@writeme.com , add the heading My DEAR bully to it please. That way we know it is not related too regular business mail.
Look, bullies may not know the way you feel. They might be more concerned how 'great' it makes them feel to cause sadness to you. There may be many reason for their actions. Some kids could actually change when they get confronted by the seriousness and real feelings their victims may have. Parents and schools can learn to understand the emotions a bully-victim may have and not just toss it aside as: ah well, they are just kids. They need to learn to get along.
It is not always as simple as that. And just because you don't come out swinging doesn't mean you don't mind. Some parents of bullies close their eyes to what is going on, not wanting to be confronted with the damage their kids really are doing. Or schools may ignore the fact these things are happening because the bully's parents are great financial, or otherwise, contributors to the school. However, this is important. This matters, YOU matter and here is YOUR voice!!!!!!
That said, the forum is open for your posts.
We will keep working on this blog and are adding many things along the way. Read or go ahead and vent, leave a message.
This is a place for you to vent, speak your mind. After a day or encounter with your bully you may need to say a few words. This is where you can. YOU have a voice here. You can come here as well to read about other kids and their experiences as well. YOU are NOT alone!
We will take the comments and create material for schools and youth groups who would like to open discussion regarding this matter. Because bullies usually do the most talking, together we can take a stand and show them how the kids feel who are bullied. It shows schools how you really feel, what you are thinking, how hurtful the comments or actions really are. It may just be an incidence at your school but when people can see how often it really happens and this matter needs to be taken seriously it creates the basis for serious conversations. This is something everybody can relate to.
What you can post and what you may not. We do NOT tolerate: you do not need to name your bully or give your name, no cursing, no negative comments from bullies, no suggestive comments, no sexual comments, no death threats and threats in any harmful way. You can submit pictures instead of comments or any other art as long as it goes along with our rules. We will post it the same way. Poems are fine as well. If you would like to write a short story, it will be ok and get posted as long as our rules apply. Or just leave comment. Example:
My DEAR bully,
I felt like crying when you said those things at school today. I hate you. Who do you think you are? Do you feel bigger and better now, just because your friends laughed?
or
My DEAR bully,
I cried for hours after school today.... thanks a lot
or
My DEAR bully,
what is wrong with you. You think you are so tough! I saw you at the store the other day and the way your mom yelled at you. Maybe that is where you learned your big words!! hahaha So uncool! I would say pic on somebody else but that would be rude to another person, and the cycle continues. Look at yourself, that is the person you want to be?
or
My DEAR bully,
you need anger-management!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(
So basically, anything goes.
How to post: You can leave a message in the comment box or simply e-mail us at sek4u@writeme.com , add the heading My DEAR bully to it please. That way we know it is not related too regular business mail.
Look, bullies may not know the way you feel. They might be more concerned how 'great' it makes them feel to cause sadness to you. There may be many reason for their actions. Some kids could actually change when they get confronted by the seriousness and real feelings their victims may have. Parents and schools can learn to understand the emotions a bully-victim may have and not just toss it aside as: ah well, they are just kids. They need to learn to get along.
It is not always as simple as that. And just because you don't come out swinging doesn't mean you don't mind. Some parents of bullies close their eyes to what is going on, not wanting to be confronted with the damage their kids really are doing. Or schools may ignore the fact these things are happening because the bully's parents are great financial, or otherwise, contributors to the school. However, this is important. This matters, YOU matter and here is YOUR voice!!!!!!
That said, the forum is open for your posts.
We will keep working on this blog and are adding many things along the way. Read or go ahead and vent, leave a message.
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Welcome
My DEAR Bully, is a website we are creating to give kids all around the world a voice. A voice to speak YOUR mind! Millions of kids get bullied every day. We get bullied. So this is a subject very close to us. In school there are always kids and clicks who take it upon themselves to just create chaos and negativity for other students. For some of us, it may not be that bad, I can take it, but others may not be so lucky.
Here you can post your message to your bully. You get a voice here. If you had a really bad day at school, come and write about it. No prophanity, no violance, but nearly everything else goes. You do not have to post your name or any personal facts. We monitor your posts closely... should there be a problem we will let you know.
The purpose behind this site is to create awareness. We will make posters of your posts and comments and create material which we will provide schools with, as a packet to open discussions and communication amongst students.
We are still building this site. Many things will be added and may change in the near future.
Here you can post your message to your bully. You get a voice here. If you had a really bad day at school, come and write about it. No prophanity, no violance, but nearly everything else goes. You do not have to post your name or any personal facts. We monitor your posts closely... should there be a problem we will let you know.
The purpose behind this site is to create awareness. We will make posters of your posts and comments and create material which we will provide schools with, as a packet to open discussions and communication amongst students.
We are still building this site. Many things will be added and may change in the near future.
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